Saturday, June 06, 2020

No, it's still All Lives Matter


I hate it when the world needs to know what to think and I’m just busy.  Lot of chores and worse, filling out all those forms (EIDL, PPP, NYSDOL). I know there are people who can have a full-time job and write novels on the side. I’m not one of those.

I had a completely different blog post planned for today, mostly autobiographical and I hoped a little amusing. But, as the subtitle to the blog says that this is about what I’m thinking. And, with riots all over the country, with even several grown Democrat friends joking with black humor, it was a nice country while it lasted, it is hard to write anything else. Because, taking a break from Covid-19, this is all most of us are thinking about. So, you get this disjointed collection of thoughts because I don’t have time to edit it even a little (and for those of you laughing because the editing is never good here, you know what . . . .) And, on top of all of that, I’m pissed off about what's going on and just want to let off steam, without rewriting everything I've said before about the problems with the modern so-called civil rights movement. So, just throwing this out there -

  •        If you think it was unimportant that a retired police captain was killed trying to stop looting the other day, you probably aren’t going to like this post. Maybe you’ll care if I add that he was black because that’s all that matters to you. Probably not if you are one of the seven people (I flatter myself) who will read this.
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  •        If you think "Black Lives Matter" is terrific you probably aren’t going to like this post either. Because I think they should change their names to Black Lives Don’t Matter to Us Unless it Pushes Forward Our Agenda, as they have not only the blood of many blacks on their hands, directly from their inspiration and leadership, but the destruction of whole neighborhoods where predominantly what are now called (by themselves and the media - almost no one else) “people of color” live. I hope, but don’t know, that most blacks want this to stop, and know that it is destroying their lives, livelihoods, and so many families.
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  •        And if or when some will die from new COVID-19 cases as a result of these protests, riots and lootings (Governor Cuomo says they should all presume they have it), something that is probably uncountable, they have that blood on their hands too, not to mention first responders or medical professionals who are sickened, injured or killed.
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  •        For several years I’ve kvetched here, more and more the past two, about the dangers of a significant and growing part of the culture of the left that has arisen. It is one that grew out of fine sentiments and a desire to improve the country, as the left had for many decades done in many ways. But, they have lost their way, and not by a little. And, I'm not even talking about the relentless assault on Trump, whether or not he's an idiot.
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  •        I can’t say all the left, because I know that many D voters are nice, normal people who just want to go to work or have kids or grandkids, watch sports or whatever their pleasures are, but they are very complacent with a growing radicalism that is dangerous not just to those on the right (and whatever they want to think, that doesn’t describe me) who they despise or tolerate, but to everyone in our country, in general.  In fact, they can see it – this doesn’t exist. They will, in fact, in the midst of that, they will still believe that most political violence is on the right (amazingly). Well, sure, if you only count right-wing violence, which of course exists, and don’t count any violence on the left – something we’ve definitively observed in the media and even government.
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  •        The right-wing has lots of faults, of course. No one I know, and I suspect not many, are the type of bigots and just all-around jerks, even criminals, that the new generation of revolutionaries (and media, in general) wants to brand you if you are just a person who says “All Lives Matter.” The right has lost almost every culture war up to this point because they should have. As I asked a friend who was just snarling that he will be proven right that Trump will not relinquish the White House if he loses the election - do you really think the rioters are right-wingers? Do you really think the people who rioted outside of Trump rallies were right-wingers, that the people who interrupted the Kavanaugh hearings (I mean, other than the D Senators, which was disgusting enough) and other hearings for years now, are right-wingers?
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  •        Yes, sometimes, parties just go off the deep end. Sometimes movements do. For years I found the Republicans reprehensible even though I had long been a determined moderate. Right now, this time in history, the Ds have gone loco. There are no R Senators or congress-persons calling for an end to – the border, police departments, the now traditional 9 member Supreme Court (the only correct number is the one where they win all cases), the 240-year old electoral college (so that they win all presidential elections) and free-speech. You can find crazy people in any party or movement, and there are crazy, even homicidal right-wingers. The Klan and similar groups do exist. But, as shown over and over, they are tiny and defanged (unless you call Klansmen getting beat up while marching "a violent rally," as I’ve seen the media do). The bottom line is, it’s wrong whatever side does it; the fact that blacks were so long set upon, beaten, lynched and otherwise oppressed does not justify any such action today by any group upon any other. Nor does the fact that prejudice and unfairness still exist.
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  •        Sure, it’s nice to think, well, we can stand some outrage by poor people who have suffered so long and deal with relentless problems, but, as usual, this movement has little to do with outrage, and a lot to do with grabbing power, wanton-destructiveness, looting and general mayhem with “protest” as a cover. And it comes while we are still in the midst of an economic and health crisis. Listen to Al Sharpton’s eulogy for George Floyd and you will hear (a la Trump) some self-praise, gross-exaggeration and not a single word for black cops killed by those inspired by BLM rhetoric. Not a single word for anyone else who has died, gotten run over, shot to death, lost their livelihoods, maimed, beaten, etc., during the several days of rioting.  

  • When they say you can't say "All Lives Matter," they actually mean you don’t matter, even if you are black, like former police captain David Dorn, shot to death by a looter while trying to protect his friend’s store. Why should they care? David Dorn was not advancing the BLM cause so he doesn’t get mentioned, except in passing (did you know his name? I had to look it up). To BLM, to the media, his death is unimportant.
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  •        What part of "protest" means burning police cars and stations, blocking traffic, destroying shopping malls? Or running over or killing cops? Or attacking the White House in a mob? That's not about George Floyd; the officers were quickly fired and prosecution begun, likely without any real investigation. 
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  •        No, I really do not think, for most people who support the “protests,” that this really has anything to do with George Floyd or blacks (and I suspect many blacks are appalled by what’s going on – especially if they are watching their neighborhood be destroyed), although I see that mostly the younger generation and some of the older left over hippy-generation (even if they weren’t hippies). Because everyone I know, every single-person, was outraged at the video they saw, got their wish that everyone involved was fired, even for just standing there and letting it happen, and that Derrick Chauvin was arrested for murder in the third degree – that is - without premeditation and intent, but through inherently dangerous acts, with no regard for human life. I hope they don’t start piling on charges like they often do in reaction to the riots. Actually, I was disturbed that they worked at record speed to charge him in reaction. Because, just like with a child, or a business-person, if you reward their behavior, they will continue it.  
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  •        I have heard so many stories right now that it is hard to tell what’s true, as I can’t verify everything. But, no doubt, stores are burning, people are being beaten, areas are shutting down. And, why again? Yes, someone was killed by the cops, which, we don’t even know if it was motivated by racism. Two of the cops who were fired were apparently Asian. Does that mean Asians also want blacks to die? But, even if it had been the most racist intended killing in history, would any violence against innocent people – even the burning of one car or store, the beating of one other person - have been justified?
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  •        The civil rights movement was increasingly successful in the ‘50s-'70s because Martin Luther King, Jr’s method, following Gandhi, following the theory of Civil Disobedience championed by Thoreau, worked. Because the majority of white people wanted an end to what had taken centuries to accomplish, because they were persuaded it was wrong. Even Malcolm X, whose younger self might have approved of what’s going on right now, came more to MLK’s viewpoint before he was murdered by those who would now be called Civil Rights workers (don’t laugh – the media either hides the fascist movement Antifa as best they can or acts like they are fighting for civil rights). The modern race warrior has assassinated King all over again, turning his famous dream of our judging each other by our characters rather than our skin color, on its head. Now, only skin color matters to the supposed civil rights warriors - hence, the name - Black Lives Matter. 
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  •        Why do I think this is all about other than George Floyd or blacks being killed? Maybe when I read that the founder of BET, a very wealthy man, thinks there should be 14 trillion in reparations based on skin color (only blacks, not any other minority, no matter how badly treated) I have trouble believing they really care about George Floyd.
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  •        Ironically, governors and other politicians, some of whom feel beholden to black voters (there literally is, no “white” block of voters or “white” caucus in congress, but are spread over the two main parties), are really only afraid of the loud voices. They have definitively abandoned less fortunate generally lawful citizens of any skin color to their fate – and that certainly means abandoned black people who live in many of the neighborhoods being destroyed. I understand the fear. But, they wanted to be in charge and have responsibility. Their cowardice and/or stupidity is unacceptable.
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  •        That chickens have come home to roost. I don’t mean because of racism. No, I do not believe that white people (certainly not the ones I know) are racist in the way people were even a few decades ago. We’ve taken giant strides against racism in this country, even so much so that Pres. Obama, who has many times fanned the flames of violent protest (always careful to verbally condemn violence, of course) has said that it was the best time for minorities in the history of the world. The chickens coming home to roost is the new racism, the one that says only “Black Lives Matter” and excommunicates you if you want to say “All Lives Matter” – that’s literally true, not an exaggeration though it seems crazy by any reasonable standard. Ask Jim Webb. Ask any politician on the left, all of whom are afraid to even utter that all lives matter in a general statement. Ask the families of the dead cops who were slaughtered (including minority cops) by those inspired by the group.
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  •        Chickens have come home to roost because so many people said what’s the big deal with Antifa, and were fine with speakers being assaulted or silenced, or politicians chased from restaurants as long as they were politicians they didn’t like. I am still – two years later – stunned by the words of a friend, one of the kindest, gentlest, most decent people I know, a devoted liberal - that it was okay for people to surround and intimidate someone because they didn’t like their views. When I asked if it was okay if that happened to a minority, or a Jew (he was Jewish) of course he didn’t have a response.
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  •        Chickens have come home to roost when we conflate violence and looting with “protest.” Chickens come home to roost when we call shutting down government or interrupting others’ lives as “free speech,” a notion, which to my amazement, even right-wingers, usually the victims, have adopted.
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  •        Chickens have come home to roost when we as a nation go back to a system where what matters is skin color (that is, now - dark good, light bad – and if you don’t think that is the norm, ask Joe Biden, who says the words “white men” with disgust).
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  •        Chickens come home to roost when we accept political rhetoric as fact and it becomes inseparable from the story. Does anyone even know if Chauvin was prejudiced against blacks? Maybe he was, maybe not, all I know is no one seems to care. It is automatic now. He’s white, he’s a police officer. Either would be sufficient. This is consistent with the approach now that if a black person is killed by the police, it is automatically murder. It is no different than the sickness on college campuses and in our political lives that if a woman says she was assaulted – even decades later – she has to be believed (unless the “predator” is a political leader in your party, of course).
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  •        Yes, this is how fascism starts – I think we are beyond starting – not because a Hitler or the like appears and says hey, I’d like to be vicious and kill people who are different than me, but because lawlessness occurs, because people see no future, and two camps fight it out violently until one side is triumphant. And it starts with efforts at censorship, such as we see at Twitter (I know they are not officially the government, but they are the main way almost every public person speaks right now). Michele Malkin can’t say looters should be shot, and the President is censored for opposing looting, but Colin Kaepernick can say we need revolution and others are far more explicit without getting booted. How Twitter and Facebook aren’t just treated as common carriers for information and misinformation (meaning they don’t get to prefer one commentary to another), when they are the predominant means of transferring political messages in our country (maybe the world), I don’t know.
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  •        Yes, we all know that what happened to George Floyd was a tragedy. I don’t know a single person who watched the video who wasn’t sickened and did not want to see all of those cops fired (which happened immediately) and one in particular, but probably three charged with some form of murder, which also happened at lightning speed. But, that is now a footnote, nothing, unless you think a news story trumps the lives and futures of everyone in the country. George Floyd’s brother, Terrence (oddly, almost never referred to by name, as far as I’ve seen – just “George Floyd’s brother) has called for peace. If he wasn’t Floyd’s brother, he’d probably be called an “Uncle Tom” or even a racist. Not that he doesn't want justice, he just knows that the violence isn't helping anyone and not bringing his brother back. Ironically, I would understand if it were him and his family who reacted violently.
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  •     What does  the media want you to believe right now? That if you oppose violent rioting, if you believe that not only black lives, but all lives matter, you are a racist or just can’t see past you skin color or privilege. And, believe me, this isn’t just black radicals who believe this, but after years of indoctrination in school (a whole other post), many white kids are sure that only black lives matter. I see, from people I know who are on social media, that young whites are all about only black lives matter and somehow miss the fact that people are being killed, supposedly in the name of justice.
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  •        One woman in her young thirties that I know is white with a white husband and two white children, wrote online that saying “all lives matter” would be like someone coming to your child’s funeral and saying all lives matter. Now, this is from someone I generally consider a (far as I know) normal, happy, decent person. But, she’s dead wrong. Saying all lives matter is not the same as someone saying all lives matter at your child’s funeral, but saying black lives matter is like going to an Asian person’s funeral and saying – only black lives matter. Saying black lives matter is not, as they argue, justified because white people and cops act like it’s not true, because it’s not true. A few, not millions, or thousand or hundreds or even dozens of unarmed blacks were shot by cops the past year (less than whites shot and far less than cops killed). I don’t do Facebook, but if I did, and were a friend of this nice person (and I’d probably be), I expect I’d get unfriended, because I’d respond “No, it’s not. I think your life matters; I think your childrens’ lives matter and, in fact, your whole family’s lives matter. Most people don’t care at all if you are white or black – they care that you are not killed. Some of the people you are giving support to chant "death to cops," plan violence, and some would not care if you or your family were killed, because you are white. And that includes "new white racists" like yourself who have bought into this. Remember, for them, black lives matter, not yours."
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  •        One of the things that made Gandhi a great man, was when the protests he organized or inspired became in any way violent, he’d immediately call them off. He insisted on the moral attitude of followers. In fact, he’d actually begin fasting unto his own death - until all the violence stopped. And he barely survived it. Do I expect that of anyone today? No. They shouldn't fast unto death. But, they could start by demanding non-violence or refuse to be involved.

  •          What has this “protesting” accomplished? It has made even more people who were not prejudiced or a little prejudiced, more prejudiced. Every time something like this happens I hear it more and more – well, I wasn’t prejudiced, but I am now. I don’t accept that, really, as a good idea, and I don’t advocate it. In fact, sometimes I don’t believe those people are really becoming racist. They are just outraged at the immorality, the selfishness and the stupidity of the so-called protesters.
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  •        I’ve always believed in ongoing, unceasing, police reform. They are necessary, but, potentially dangerous. Believe me, I've been subject to angry police on occasion. Each one has both not enough power and too much power, depending on the circumstances. It’s a dangerous and often unthanked job that we both make fetishes over and condemn. But, any politician who wants to do away with them – and yes, they do exist – is out of their minds.
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  •    I’m sure to some people everything I wrote above is racist. If it makes you a racist . . .  
               -  to think that Martin Luther King, Jr. dream helped our country immensely, that non-violent resistance worked, and the new racism (that is, reverting to actual racism) only-identity-matters is disabling our country (one of my favorite of my own posts is Killing the Dream – Again [8/28/17]) . . .

-                                 - to think that George Floyd’s death was at least manslaughter, possibly worse, but not justification for burning, looting, shooting, outright murder, or crazed gatherings in the midst of a pandemic . . .

-                                  - to think the first amendment right to expression is a critical right, and that this has to include people I disagree, and even actual racists. . .

-                                   - to think that Grant Napear being fired from his broadcasting roles on television and radio for responding to a request as to what he thought about Black Lives Matter that “ALL LIVES MATTER” is crazy and racist itself. . .

-                                    - to think the life and happiness of the officers (and their families) who were shot, run down, beaten, spat on, hit with fire extinguishers and bricks, etc, are consequential, are each one as important as George Floyd’s life. . .

-                                      - to think that any group calling for death to cops (or whomever, frankly) is nuts and probably racist, no different than the KKK or other white supremacist groups, is abominable. . .

-                                       - to think that our educational system continues to fail minority children by teaching them they are victims (increasingly). . .

-                                       - to think that our educational system continues to act as fascists by insisting that white kids need to be punished more (you think I am making that up; ask teachers you know) and teach students that because of their skin color whites (including, of course, babies) bare guilt for slavery that they had nothing to do with, or are privileged. . .

-                                         - to think that people like actress Katherine Heigl who says she will have to tell her adopted black daughter about George Floyd, is a bad mother, who will terrorize her daughter and teach her she is inferior, and to not face life with confidence and joy (despite that she will grow up rich and financially secure). . .

-                                          - to think, like Barack Obama (sometimes, anyway; he was at times perhaps the most openly bigoted president in modern times – not that almost anyone in the media will say it), that we’ve made such strides in combatting racism in our country and that it is the best time to be a minority, not the worst – as we hear over and over on television. . .

-                                        - to think that people shouldn’t be murdered, beaten, stolen from, using George Floyd’s name as an excuse. . .

-                                         - to think that neighborhoods shouldn’t be destroyed, and the lives of thousands or hundreds of thousands of people affected or ruined, in the name of George Floyd. . .

-                                         - to think that is better that looters (black, white, green – I could care less) get shot, than innocent people get murdered and their neighborhoods burned. . .

-                                         - to think that the black leadership that gets the press are terrible for minorities (I wish everyone would read John McWhorter’s Losing the Race – we can know he’s a real leader because almost no one follows him). . .

. . .  then I must be a racist. It’s okay, because if you disagree with those things, I probably think you are racist.

I could go on, but I know at some point even interested people’s eyes glaze over. Could have been four thousand words ago. And apologies for the extra bullet points. No amount of being pissed off will cure my digital incompetence.

Frankly, I don’t personally know anyone who is on the left who thinks the riots and looting is a good thing (as far as I know), although we can see in the media and online that some definitively do – but the one’s I know personally seem to detest it, even some of the more radical bent. But, some also think that the riots are okay or they don’t focus on the killing and other mayhem. They also don’t think that the other dogma they’ve been taught and believe and advocate for, has to a large degree led to these riots, made them okay for so many people. David Dorn’s name will be forgotten, but George Floyds name will go on.  

Some of them I know do not believe in the new left, or would like a much more moderate version of it, but are they afraid to say anything. Corporate and educational employers are driven by fear of offending the new racists, and they will chastise, suspend or fire their loyal employees. Employees know this and are, not surprisingly, intimidated.   

It is easier to convince yourself that those who would hurt you if you don’t submit, are in fact right. When someone is kidnapped, they call it the Stockholm Syndrome, but it’s simple human nature to try and appease those who would harm you and to even identify with them in self-defense.

And for me. . . well, I won’t hold my contempt for the racism behind black lives matter – against George Floyd. That was still a tragedy. Even if he had been guilty of a heinous crime, what happened to him wouldn’t be lawful nor right. But, like the overkill with the metoo movement, over-reactions drown out the importance of any good thoughts. If you don’t think tens of thousands of people having their neighborhood food shopping taken away or their businesses or dreams killed, perhaps forever, is important, certainly the beatings and killings that followed Floyd’s death were much worse than what happened to him, just by the fact that there were so many more of them. If you don’t think the lives of the others who were killed are worth knowing about or are far sadder than what happened to one person (we all know that if it happens to someone we care about, it is different for us), well, that’s your political prerogative, but that’s all it is. It certainly is neither rational, nor fair, nor good for our society. . .  

[Sorry that I wrote the above in more of a rush than usual and had to go back and re-edit this. I'm sure it's still a mess, but did what I could in the wee hours, getting ready to see what outrages the new morning brings us].

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I started this blog in September, 2006. Mostly, it is where I can talk about things that interest me, which I otherwise don't get to do all that much, about some remarkable people who should not be forgotten, philosophy and theories (like Don Foster's on who wrote A Visit From St. Nicholas and my own on whether Santa is mostly derived from a Norse god) and analysis of issues that concern me. Often it is about books. I try to quote accurately and to say when I am paraphrasing (more and more). Sometimes I blow the first name of even very famous people, often entertainers. I'm much better at history, but once in a while I see I have written something I later learned was not true. Sometimes I fix them, sometimes not. My worst mistake was writing that Beethoven went blind, when he actually went deaf. Feel free to point out an error. I either leave in the mistake, or, if I clean it up, the comment pointing it out. From time to time I do clean up grammar in old posts as, over time I have become more conventional in my grammar, and I very often write these when I am falling asleep and just make dumb mistakes. It be nice to have an editor, but . . . .